Special Insight

When someone you know begins to act funny towards you unbeknownst to
you, do not get mad at them simply laugh because some mysterious are
made to be comical. If or when they bring their annoyance to your
attention, apologize for the offense you have made but not for the
person you are! If you treat people the right way in any relationship
there is no acceptable reason why it should end the wrong way. Often
situations are taken out of content and are taken too personally
because one person if not both parties are dealing with that particular
personal issue within themselves. Try not to be insensitive about another
person's sensitivity, for what may be a joke to you could be death to
someone else. Some opinions are portrayed as facts and often opinions
are portrayed as judgments, both are from a personal point of view.
Should you have to determine that you dislike someone be certain that
it is because of a personal experience for which it has forced you to
oppose being fond of the person. We are all born with ready made
personalities which may very well conflict with another individual, the
chance of this happening is the same as midnight becoming a new day.
Learn to give a person, as much as they give you no more or less, there
is nothing unfair about an even exchange. Accept people for the person
they portray themselves to be because if they do present themselves as
having two sides to their being, they are the one that are bound to one
day forgetting which side is real. Hopefully by the end you will have
determined which side it is. In a feud pay close attention to your
behavior not the behavior of the opposing team, do not allow them to
puppet your actions; you cannot out a fire with gasoline. Any
relationship worth fighting for is worth keeping, pick your battles
wisely otherwise you will end up in war with yourself. Whatever happens
just make sure it is what you wanted to do; let everyone else do them
and you do you. A person can use up a lot of energy trying to be
someone whom they are not unaware that it requires great strength to be who
they really are! HAPPY FRIDAY