Wednesday, June 27, 2007

Wishes & Blessings


Never put a wish bone where your backbone is suppose to be. If you do
not stand tall for what you believe in, then you will fall short of
getting what life has to offer you. Wishes are what you do hoping you
will receive what you ask for, but blessings are what you get from God
even if you don't ask for it. If it was not for the opportunist the
pessimist would not know what they are so unhappy about. Pay attention
to the words that are spoken to you and not the moving lips, focus on
the eyes of the person and not the looks they give you. When a person
had been betrayed you focus on the person and not the betrayal for this
may be just the person for once in their life acting like themselves
towards you. Focus on who they really are, because now you have seen who
they really are not. Rather than put all your trust in people, put all
the trust in yourself to co-sign that you are making the right decision
about people. Look up and straight forward as you walk the steps of life
because looking down will only guide you towards the destination of your
shoes. Everyday that allows the opening of your eyes should give you a
silent strict instruction for you to find something to be happy about.
Tomorrow should take you a step closer to a happier day, until it
becomes the happiest day of your life and then you repeat the cycle.
Life's recipe has an abundance of ingredients although you may leave out
something's in order to make it; it still will be the result of whatever
you intended to make of it. The possible takes preparation and
determination; the impossible may take more and a little longer time. A
person's determination of success results into success from
determination. Life comes in different shapes and sizes and its capacity
has many measurements, find your size and wear it well!

Friday, June 22, 2007

Thursday, June 21, 2007

FAITH VS. CONTROL


Bishop E. Earl Jenkins

"If you give up your life for me, you will save it." Luke 9:24 CEV


When you obsess over problems instead of looking to God for solutions,the enemy will magnify your fears. If he can't get you to worry aboutthe present he'll remind you of everything that could go wrong in thefuture! Ralph Waldo Emerson said, "All I have seen, has taught me to trust God for all I haven't seen."


The last time you checked, wasn't God still bigger than any terrorist attack, financial disaster, illness, accusation, or mess you found yourself in? Well, He hasn't changed! David said, "He won't go to sleep...The Lord is...at your right side...[He] will...keep yousafe...wherever you go" (Ps 121:3-8 CEV); plus His angels are watching over you 24/7. It all comes down to faith vs. control.


You can struggle to handlethings on your own - or trust your Heavenly Father. That's the choice! It's not about 'blind faith,' it's about believing that God is who He says He is. And it's an issue you need to settle in your mind once and for all, because if you don't believe He wants only the best for you, you'll keep trying to run the show. Control isn't responsibility. Responsibility is doing your part by praying, obeying, and trusting God. Control is manipulating the circumstances to engineer the outcome you want. Jesus knows how we like holding on to things we're not wise enough tocontrol, so He said, "If you want to save your life, you will destroy it. But if you give [it] up...for me, you will save it" (Lk 9:24 CEV).


Bottom line - you either trust God or you don't!

Wednesday, June 20, 2007

Makes you say HMMMMM....

Just when I as about to shut down my confessions, here goes Diane with some honor. I'm delighted because I never realize how much of an influence is in my possession. Im doing things with fully knowing what Im doing. Ive been reading TD Jakes "Repositioning Yourself" and it has enlightened me on so many aspects of my life that I have been ignoring, such as this. This is just how God works..He has revealed to me some positivity and now it is my assignment to show Him that I will be responsible, because He is just so Faithful. So I am again, delighted for the confirmation of the "Thinking Bloggers Award"


NOW, TO ALL MY FANS......

YOU LIKE ME, YOU REALLLY LIKE ME!!!!

Thursday, June 14, 2007

U GOTTA HAVE BALLS...


A woman who ripped off her ex-boyfriend's testicle with her bare hands has been sent to prison.
Amanda Monti, 24, flew into a rage when Geoffrey Jones, 37, rejected her advances at the end of a house party, Liverpool Crown Court heard.

She pulled off his left testicle and tried to swallow it, before spitting it out. A friend handed it back to Mr Jones saying: "That's yours."

Monti admitted wounding and was jailed for two-and-a-half years.

'Pulled hard'

Sentencing Monti, Judge Charles James said it was "a very serious injury" and that Monti was not acting in self defence.

The court heard that Mr Jones had ended his long-term but "open relationship" with Monti towards the end of May last year.

The pair remained on good terms and on 30 May she picked him up from a party in Crosby and went back for drinks with friends at Mr Jones's house.

An argument ensued and Mr Jones said there was a struggle between them.

In his statement, Mr Jones said she grabbed his genitals and "pulled hard".

He added: "That caused my underpants to come off and I found I was completely naked and in excruciating pain."

The court heard that a friend saw Monti put Mr Jones's testicle into her mouth and try to swallow it.

She choked and spat it back into her hand before the friend grabbed it and gave it back to Mr Jones. Doctors were unable to re-attach the organ.

In a letter to the court, Monti said she was sorry for what she had done.

She said: "It was never my intention to cause harm to Geoff and the fact that I have caused him injury will live with me forever. I am in no way a violent person."

The letter added: "I have challenged myself to explain what has happened but still I just cannot remember. This has caused much anguish to me and will do for the rest of my life."

Story from BBC NEWS:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/go/pr/fr/-/1/hi/england/merseyside/4253849.stm

Tuesday, June 12, 2007

One Word

Okay I was extra bored today so you have 3 posts to fill you up.


I have a challenge for each and everyone of you to describe what you think you know of me in just ONE WORD.

Yes, this came to me in a email that nobody responded to, so I'm doing it all over again. Maybe this time someone will say something..anything.

How to Hear From God

But when He, the Spirit of Truth (the Truth-giving Spirit) comes, He will guide you into all the Truth (the whole, full Truth)....-John 16:13

Divine guidance is God's will for His children. We must believe that God does desire to speak to us and that we can hear from Him. One of the ministries of the Holy Spirit in our lives is to guide or lead us into God's will for us in each situation.

I don't believe that anyone immediately knows how to be led by the Spirit. We learn in these areas, and it takes teaching, studying, training, exercising, and making a few mistakes.

Making a mistake is not the end of the world; not learning from our mistake is a greater mistake than the original error.Have a pioneering spirit and be willing to learn. Here are some pointers that will help you:

1. Have regular prayer and fellowship time with God.
2. Be careful what you hear. Create an atmosphere that is conducive to hearing God.
3. Want God's will more than your own.
4. Know that God leads step-by-step. He often does not show you the entire plan at the beginning.
5. Be a thankful person.
6. Be led by peace and wisdom. The Holy Spirit desires to lead you into God's good plan for your life; He will speak to you, and you can hear Him.

Have You Been in the Wilderness Long Enough?


The Lord our God said to us in Horeb, You have dwelt long enough on this mountain. Turn and take up your journey....-Deuteronomy 1:6,7

As long as we have wilderness attitudes, we will continue living in the wilderness. Jesus died so we could live in the Promised Land the land of abundance.
It was only an eleven-day journey to the Promised Land, yet the Israelites wandered in the wilderness for forty years murmuring, grumbling, complaining, and blaming Moses and God for their troubles. (Deuteronomy 1:1-7).
Their lack of progress was due to their attitude.Having a good attitude in a trying situation is at least 90 percent of the battle. We can win over anything as long as we have a godly attitude. There will always be trials in life, but as we trust God and continue doing what He shows us to do, we always come out victorious.Don't be afraid to walk in the light. As God brings your faults into the light to expose and remove them, it may be uncomfortable. This kind of discomfort, however, is temporary.
God loves you very much, and He has an excellent plan for your life. Follow the Holy Spirit, and He will lead you swiftly through the wilderness into the Promised Land.Take the shortcut through the wilderness don't go the long way around!

Thursday, June 07, 2007

WHAT KIND OF THINKER ARE YOU???


S manuel, You are a Motivational Visionary
Ideas and options are what you're always creating and doing.

Your Communication Style 
A Natural People Person
When you are walking down a corridor or a street, you like to greet or stop to speak to someone. People just love to talk with you about anything. That's because the positive energy that you give off during conversations develops an instant bond with everyone.


You love to interact with people. It doesn't matter how many people there are or at what level you're communicating; you do it effortlessly. Conversation has been extremely natural to you your whole life.


You have a wonderful sense of humor. When people are with you, they smile and laugh a lot. Whether it's telling a joke you heard before or sharing a spontaneous ad lib, you're naturally funny and entertaining. Your humor and ways of communicating are constantly creating situations that relax and motivate other people.


Strategic Creativity
Unless people know you very well, they won't realize that you are quite capable of creating strategic plans, following intellectual pursuits and developing new, abstract theories about how things integrate or function. You're able to look at the whole picture, break them into discrete, unusual parts, and synthesize these into unique wholes or strategic plans. You thoroughly enjoy discovering creative options when thinking through difficult problems and challenging ideas.


Motivating and Leading Others
When it comes to dealing with people and problems, you use a combination of intuitive and rational thoughts very successfully. Your positive, personal and intelligent ways of relating to people make them want to follow you during times of confusion and stress. It's when the situations are dynamic and need optional thinking and/or in-the-moment organization that you're able to step forward, take command and lead others towards successful outcomes. This is when your style of leadership becomes most effective.


Even if you're not knowledgeable about a subject area under discussion, you come across as smooth and intelligent. It doesn't matter to you what conversations others are having or what topics they're discussing, you can join in without missing a beat. That's because you intuitively know how to listen to the underlying messages being delivered and how to successfully respond to people intellectually with just a few facts.


How You Learn
Besides reading and studying, conversations and dialogues provide you with an enjoyable opportunity to learn. It's during this repartee that you're able to ask any type of question: logical, analogical or just odd ones to serve your curiosity. One of the best ways for you to learn and to be motivated is to belong to a study group, particularly one that has members who are focused on the objectives and deadlines. The process of these groups can provide you with the focus and further detail to study and learn effectively.


Speaking in front of Groups
Speeches and presentations to small or large groups come naturally to you. You can either be prepared or wing it when making a speech. The latter, with a few notes jotted on a piece of scrap paper, is your preferred way to present. Also, you'll use theatrical intonations and gestures, personalized comments and anecdotes with humor, integrating them around facts, logic and important points. When you have finished, people leave your presentations feeling that you have presented a solid case, you have touched them personally and you have spoken to each one of them intellectually.


Your Leadership Qualities
As a leader, you're a powerful combination of intellectual insightfulness, future predictions and personal charm. The former allows you to plan and think things through intuitively and logically. The latter allows you to be empathetic and personal in your expression of motivation and planned action. The two of these combined give you the positive power that people trust and follow.


Communication Tips
People who have a predominantly Left-brain Abstractthinking style thrive on careful analysis of all pertinent factors before making any decisions. Their style is naturally systematic and detail-oriented, characterized by the pursuit of logic, predictability and discipline. They may appear distant and aloof at times, as they prefer to listen rather than talk. They tend to stick to the rules and stay within the confines of their orderly world.
When communicating with a Left-brain Abstract person, you are likely to experience the following characteristics:


You might find their passion for logical analysis to be ponderous or overly pedantic at times, but if you keep an open mind, their conclusions could be beneficial to you.


In situations where you must collaborate on a project or a plan, their tendency to stick to the rules can be limiting to your own creative visions. Present your optional ideas as logical alternatives worthy of consideration.


They may appear distant and aloof at times, as they prefer to listen rather than talk. Don't take this personally or assume they're arrogant. Remember that they're absorbing and processing information before they render an opinion.


They can be a valuable source of background or historical information, which you sometimes tend to overlook while you aim for the "big picture." Nevertheless, expect them to provide more details than you might care for.


People who have a predominantly Right-brain Concrete thinking style thrive on interacting with people and being the center of attention. They inspire others with their charm and warm personality. They can read other people very easily and use their intuitive skills to adapt effortlessly to changing situations. They are excellent at exciting and persuading others to follow their suggestions. They often speak without spending too much time thinking about what to say.
When communicating with a Right-brain Concrete person, you are likely to experience the following characteristics:


At times, you might find their ebullient need to be the center of attention to be overpowering or annoying.


Like therapists, they can sometimes encourage you to open up and confide with them about personal problems or concerns you have. You're usually okay with this, as long as they don't pry too deeply or push their solutions too strongly.


As much as you think before you speak, they think by speaking. They are excellent at exciting and persuading others to follow their suggestions.


Even if they don't take logic or factual data into account, they may come up with innovative or imaginative ideas that are worthy of your consideration.


Since you both like to come up with ideas, the verbal interaction can be both personally rewarding and productive. They may not share your visionary creativity, but they often have an intuitive sense of what is most suited for you.


They can sometimes seem manipulative in getting their way. While you might find their personal charm and charisma irresistible, don't allow yourself to be swayed in a direction that you know is not right for you.


People who have a predominantly Left-brain Concrete thinking style are action-oriented and thrive on challenge. As movers of people and organizations, they enforce rules, focus on goals, meet deadlines, and demand immediate action. They typically avoid getting bogged down in details and want to go directly to the bottom line. They prefer short and easy action-items or conclusions. They are decisive people who want to get things done quickly and efficiently.
When communicating with a Left-brain Concrete person, you are likely to experience the following characteristics:


You might find their style at times overbearing or in some cases, even intimidating. As a result, you're likely to interact with them only as much as absolutely necessary.
When it comes to solving problems, they view feelings or abstract concepts as intrusions that prevent them from reaching a firm conclusion. You'd be better off not allowing your feelings to become too much of an issue.


On the other hand, your feelings about certain situations are paramount to your comfort level, so don't be afraid to let them know how important that is to you.
There might be times that you will feel they are pushing too hard to get you to make a final decision. On the other hand, you might be struggling with all the options you're considering and could benefit from their decisive nature.


Don't be offended by their direct talk if it seems abrupt Рthey are goal-oriented people who know how to get things done.


When communicating with another Left-brain Concrete, you are likely to experience the following characteristics:
Like you, they tend to be visionary thinkers who look at the big picture and try to understand how things relate to each other.
They value creative, inspirational options as much as you do. They can usually provide interesting alternatives that would be worth your while to consider. At times, however, you might become a bit irritated with their tendency to go off on tangents when you're trying to focus on a particular issue of concern.
With the tendency you both have to procrastinate while exploring your options, one of you will need to refocus your energies on making a decision when the need to accomplish something arises.


You are both open-minded and feelings-oriented. Together, you are likely to create a relaxed, low-key atmosphere based on trust and good rapport.
Remember to be patient with their quiet, reflective nature; just like you, they may be thinking of other options that are more suitable for you or for themselves.
Ultimately, you both need to feel comfortable with how your decisions fit into your world.

Wednesday, June 06, 2007

MOVING FORWARD...

Good Afternoon. We must have a DEEP sense of purpose and the will to fulfill it.. WE MUST... Resolve old, unfinished business and eliminatetoxic people and attitudes from our lives. We MUST.. Work hard, have long periods of study and CONCENTRATED efforts. We must...Withdraw and sever ties with people who are not truly aligned with our best long term interests... (Finally!) Focus exclusively on your ambitions and what isimportant to you. ELIMINATE DISTRACTIONS AND MOVE FOWARD!!!

Monday, June 04, 2007

Wait...


When the last fool left With my dignity in his hands

When the joker before that Made all those demands

Mr. Right, please don't speak to my body Speak to my mind

My soul's been waiting too long, the right man to find

This highway of life has had its ups and its downs

I would have thought by now, true love would be found

My heart has been broken, is loneliness my fate?

God Spoke to my spirit and said, "Wait"

I've made some bad choices

Listened to the wrong voices

Should I keep going at this rate?

My head says yes, but God said "Wait"

I cannot deny the jealousy I feel

My feelings of envy are all too real

Always the bride's maid, never the bride

It's hard to keep looking, on the bright side

I try to keep myself up

Try to be pleasing to the eye

When will it be my turn to become a beautiful butterfly?

I have read the scriptures, prayed the prayers,

Sang the hymn and cast my cares

In all these things I have fought the good fight

But the loneliness still finds me in the still of the night

No one to hold on to No one to caress

Is this what God has for those who give Him their best?

Then I remember whose child I am

I have been washed in the blood of the lamb

This temple I've been given is being put to the test

I must continue to give God my best

I've got to start living like a person who wants to be blessed

Not worrying and complaining increasing my stress

Instead of raising my voice in a fit of rage

I'm lifting my hands to give God the praise

When the praises go up the blessings come down

I know I'm getting close to higher ground

The devil continues his attempts to frustrate

God give strength and help me to wait.

Thursday, May 31, 2007

Giving & Sharing




"As the Father has loved me, so I have loved you; abide in my love."--John 15:9




Through God's unconditional love in my heart, I give and receive love openly. It doesn't take much to show someone we care. An act of kindness can bring a hint of sweetness to someone's day. It's a blessing to both give and receive when they are done with love. All of us desire to love and be loved on a deeper level too - one that brings fulfillment and joy in our relationships. Reaching this depth takes patience and courage. In any relationship, the truest love is unconditional. This is the love that God extends to every one of us every day.




Today let's make a commitment to recognize and share God's love for us.

Wednesday, May 30, 2007

Its Been A Long Time...

...shouldn't have left you, without a dope beat to step to...


Hey Pumpkins! Im back...but I gotta do some work, so I will hollah back after I finish playing catch-up!

Wednesday, May 23, 2007

>>>A DIVINE RELATIONSHIP<<<

"Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due, when it is in yourpower to do it." --Proverbs 3:27

Friends help make this life a little better each day. You can probablythink of multiple instances where a good friend changed the day for youand made you look on the brighter side. That's exactly what Godintended friendship to be. True friends know you well; they give youwise advice from the Word of God. Everyone needs a faithful friend sowhy not make a commitment today to be a friend to someone who needs you.

Tuesday, May 22, 2007

....::::DESIRED HAPPINESS::::.....

Do you desire to be happy? (Remember this) The proof ofdesire is pursuit. You must go to happy places.. Pursue happy people..Create happy days... If you really desire happiness in your life, youmust be willing to reach for it! Never blame anyone or anything for yourunhappiness. Life rewards reachers. I have always said, "Happiness is never placed within your life, happiness is simply placed within your reach!".

Now go out there and have a happy day!

Monday, May 21, 2007

Circle of Sisters Bookclub of Kalamazoo

Hey Everybody!!

Recently my bookclub, Circle of Sisters Bookclub of Kalamazoo, was featured in the ReadingGroupGuides.com online newsletter. I keep telling y'all we are the bombdiggityyo! One day you are going to believe me.


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HOW TO HANDLE A HATER.

A hater is someone that is jealous and envious and spends all their time trying to make you look small so they can look tall. When you make your mark, you will always attract some haters... That's why you have to be careful who you share your blessings and your dreams with because some folk can't handle seeing you blessed... It's dangerous to be like somebody else... If God wanted you to be like somebody else He would have given you what he gave them.

You don't know what people have gone through to get what they have... (The problem I have with haters is that they see my glory, but they don't know my story...) If the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence, you can rest assured that the water bill is higher there too.
We've all got some haters among us, Some people don't like it that you can:

* Come to church
* Get your praise on
* Bless His Holy Name
* Haters don't want to see you happy
* Haters don't want to see you succeed
* Haters don't want you get the victory

Most of our haters are people that are supposed to be on our side. How do you handle the haters who you at least expect to have your guard up against? You can handle your haters by:
1. Knowing who you are & who your true friends are
2. Having a purpose
3. By remembering what you have is by divine prerogative and not human manipulation.

Purpose does not mean having a job. You can have a job and still be unfilled. A purpose is having a clear sense of what God has called you to be. Your purpose is not defined by what others think about you. You will always be trying to get stuff because the more stuff you have will improve what others think about you, but what others think will last as long as the stuff last. When God gives you favor, you can tell your haters, "Don't look at me...Look at who is in charge of me...

Remember, it ain't about you, but it's all about God.

Thursday, May 17, 2007

Wednesday, May 16, 2007

Random...


I just thought this was funny as hale!!!!!!!!!

I MET LANCE!!!!


....this should make Saadia happy today.



Lance came to North Carolina to visit his friends and family, while he was here I got to finally meet him, oh joy!!!!! We went to a Japanese restaurant called Arigatos and had fun talking big mess!!! So much so, the lady next to us started choking!!! He's always starting trouble. Fun times!